Sometimes life hands you perspective along with a good smack up side the head.
I won't go into details, but I have a few friends right now that are going through some hard things. It has been making me less patient with both myself, and with the Wolf. I am in pain over the long term consequences of some of these things, and I am lashing out a bit in response.
Yep, I've been through some crap in my life. Its time to put on my big girl panties and deal. I've done it before, I'll undoubtedly have to do it again. I have reached out for, and received, help and support. On I go, one step at a time.
Wolf? Yep, you've had some shitty cards dealt to you along the way to. It is now time to get your head out of your ass, accept the help that is being offered to you, or in some cases, in your own words "crammed down your throat". Take some ownership of your life. Deal with your issues. Get over yourself.
I am not turning my back on the Wolf. I am not cutting him loose. I am, however, done making excuses for his behaviour, to myself or to anyone else.
Not sure how long this current state of mind is going to last, but its where I am today.
Friday, February 26, 2010
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the hardest thing for us to do is the 2nd aspect of control..."acceptance"....this because it requires an ongoing willingness to utilize both the 1st level "recognition" and the last"manipulation" in an increasing manner as we constantly are able to increase the dimensions with which we view any situation. To become stagnant is to marginalize capability and in doing so we leave gaps in our lives....which in some ways.....once passed are irretrievable..
ReplyDeleteYou are correct in refusing to put off your own experience for those of other adults who wish to 'relish' their 'self-aggrandizing' by fear.