Quick update:
I am still in the moving process, and busy at work, so my 'net access is sporadic.
When the news broke on CBC about the rocket attack on KAF my heart proceeded immediately to my throat. Attacks on KAF never make the news here ... so we all knew this must actually be big.
I changed my Facebook status, and sent offline MSN messages to both Sebastian and The Wolf. Just saying that the news here was making a big deal of the attack, and if they would spare a few words so I knew they were OK I would appreciate it.
Sebastian managed to respond within a few hours, and let me know he was not near the chaos, and was safe.
I never heard from The Wolf. His sister in law let me know this morning that she had received an e-mail from him saying things were nutty, but he was safe and sound. I thanked her, and told her that I had sent him a message asking for a few words and received nothing.
She had a few choice words for him.
I am wondering how many times you can "give up" on the same relationship? I had given up on a "couple" realationship, but thought we could maintain a friendship. I admit some of the nasty things that happened towards the end have been nagging at my mind; flames are licking at that bridge. I am beginning to doubt that friendship is even possible at this point. Which hurts, but not as deeply as I thought it might.
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
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Don't beat yourself up over this. It is so normal to care about the safety and wellbeing of a former partner. After all, he was a part of your life and regardless of what happens in the future, he always will be. But I am glad both are okay.
ReplyDeleteThere is a pretty strong argument that says once romantic, never friends... it's sad, but it proves true more often than not. :( I am glad that Sebastian got back to you so soon, that speaks volumes to me about your importance to him. ((hugs))
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